Conventional Thought.

Conventional. “Concerned with what is generally held to be acceptable at the expense of individuality and sincerity.” I have been having a tough time recently with how I’m feeling vs. how I assumed I would feel. I’ve droned on, and on, and on, about how I would never rush into things when I met a … More Conventional Thought.


I waited, and searched, and pondered about a boy – some boy – every single day (damn near) for the last 2 1/2 years. Pathetically, since my last relationship ended. I wondered who the boys were that managed to show up. All of them. The fuckboys, and the nice guys, and the ones I couldn’t … More Maybe(?)


I heard a statement about relationships once. “If you carry bricks from your past relationship to your new one, you’ll only build the same house.” Or something like that. The point I took from it being: if you carry fears or doubts or struggles or issues from your past relationships around with you, you’ll be … More Trust

Pump the brakes.

I have always been very one-track minded. I wouldn’t say that it is my best trait, or even a good trait, but it’s a trait that I have grown to admit I possess. It doesn’t matter if it’s something small, like wanting to try a new iced coffee from Starbucks, or something big like redecorating my … More Pump the brakes.